MITEN LÖYTÄÄ MIELENRAUHA?

Jos osaisin todella kertoa miten mielenrauha saavutetaan täydellisesti, olisin todennäköisesti miljonääri ja lifestyleguru. Mitään quick fix -ratkaisua minulla ei ole tarjota tähän ongelmaan, mutta toivottavasti tämä herättää edes jossakussa ajatusta joka helpottaa hankalana hetkenä. Mielenrauhaa voi kuitenkin hakea omalla tekemisellä ja asennoitumisella asioihin. Paransin viime viikolla maailmaa ystävän kanssa ja näin jälkimainingeissa olen miettinyt mielenrauhaa ja itsensä vertaamista muihin. Kiitollisuus sekä armollisuus itselle on tärkeä osa mielenrauhan saavuttamisessa, eikä se ole myöskään pysyvä tila. Sen voi saavuttaa ja menettää, eikä elämäntilanteen muutokset välttämättä helpota asiaa. Erityisesti sosiaalinen media hankaloittaa mielenrauhan saavuttamista kun ympäri vuorokauden on mahdollista nähdä inspiroivaa sisältöä. Toistaan ihanammat saavutukset ja kuvat helposti saavat ajattelemaan, ettei itse ole riittävästi ja kyseenalaistamaan että miksi itsellä ei ole noita vaatteita, tuota treenattua kroppaa tai tuollaista kotia. Jokaisella meillä on omat vahvuudet, eikä auta jos niistä löytää vain omat heikkoudet. Oman jaksamiseni ja mielenterveyteni kannalta parhaaksi ajatukseksi olen huomannut seuraavan: ”Minun ei tarvitse olla yhtään enempää kuin olen, eikä minun tule verrata itseäni muihin vaan itseeni aiemmin.”

Et tee kenellekään palvelusta soimaamalla itseäsi epätäydellisyydestäsi. Ainut kuka siinä kärsii olet sinä itse, joten jos haluat päästää itsesi helpommalla annat nämä epätäydellisyytesi itsellesi anteeksi ja yrität parhaasi niissä asioissa jotka ovat sinulle tärkeitä. Jos et voi arvostaa itseäsi täysin, niin et voi olettaa muiden tekevän sitä sinun puolestasi. Itsensä hyväksyminen on elämän tärkeimpiä oppitunteja ja mitä aiemmin sen opit sitä nopeammin saavutat elämän, jossa voit olla tyytyväinen ja lopulta myös onnellinen. Oman mielen sisäiset esteet ja haasteet seuraavat sinua kuitenkin joka paikkaan, joiden ymmärtäminen auttaa sinua myös arvostamaan itseäsi. Kun tiedät miksi teet juuri niinkuin tuppaat tekemään, ymmärrät ettei asiat ole niin mustavalkoisia kuin voisi kuvitella. Anteeksi antaminen onkin olennainen osa, jolloin pääset eteenpäin aiemmista virheistäsi ja voit keskittyä tulevaisuuteesi ja tekemään siitä parhaan mahdollisen itsellesi. Olet itsesi kanssa koko elämäsi ympäri vuorokauden, joten jos olet itsesi oma pahin vihollinen tulee olemassaolosi olemaan tuskallista. Jos mietit henkilöä ketä et voi sietää (ja meillä kaikilla on niitä ihmisiä), et ole tämän seurassa rentoutunut tai voi hyvin. Jos tämä henkilö olet sinä itse, et tule pääsemään karkuun fyysisesti itseäsi vaan sinun täytyy kohdata ne haastavat osat itseäsi joista et pidä ja hyväksyä ne ajan kanssa.

Terapia on tähän hyvä keino, sillä voit peilata omia ajatuksiasi ja tunteitasi luottamuksellisesti toisen ihmisen kanssa. Itse en ole käynyt psykologilla tai terapiassa muistaakseni kertaakaan, mutta tiedän sen olevan loistava tapa itsetutkiskeluun ja omien toimintatapojen kehittämiseen rakentavampaan suuntaan. Jokainen meistä ansaitsee olla tyytyväinen itseensä ja voisin itsekin kuvitella käyväni läpi terapiaprosessin.  Jos ajatus terapiasta jostain syystä tuntuu pelottavalle, jota sen ei tarvitse missään nimessä olla, on olemassa paljon muitakin keinoja kehittää itseään ja parantamaan itsetuntoa ja helpottaa itsensä hyväksymistä. Ystävät ja tärkeät ihmiset ovat keino peilata omia tunteita, mutta silloin on tärkeää muistaa että osaa myös kyseenalaistaa omat reaktiot ja tavat toimia jotta niistä voi oppia jotain. Terapia on turvallinen ympäristö käsitellä näitä asioita ja samalla saada ammattilaisen tukea tähän prosessiin. Se on kuitenkin vain yksi keino mielenrauhan löytämiseen. Se voi kuitenkin olla esimerkiksi meditointi, liikunta, lukeminen tai mikä tahansa asia, joka helpottaa omien ajatuksiesi järjestäytymistä mielessäsi. Etsi se keino ja löydä itsesi ja se kuuluisa mielenrauha. Jos löydät sen, niin kerro minullekin mistä sen voi löytää! Hehe.

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